12 Comments on “How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend”

  1. BeBe
    Hey so me and my bf broke up about a month ago. He said we could still be friends so after our break up we still talked for a few days but I decided to stop talking to him to give him space. 5 days into that he unfriended me on fb. I still am not sure what that means but I didn't try and friend him back or ask him why he did so. We would usually talk on Hangouts which is a google chat thing on google+. He had only got that for me and I was the only person he talked to on that whoever else he used fb for. But I see that he gets on Hangouts a lot and checks it. Sometimes stays on it. I would like to think it's to see if I would message him but I don't know. He has told me before that he just wants to be friends and that he doesn't want a gf for a long time. That the reason for the breakup was that it just went "stale". Told ona his friends it was because we weren't able to hangout that much. Anyway, I havnt talked to him in a little over a month. I really do want to get him back. I don't know I I stand a chance at doing so but I don't know what to message him. Do you think you could help me? Or that here is any chance in getting him back?
    • Brad Browning
      Hi there, try not to fall into the friendship trap. The breakup happened for a reason and that's most likely due to a loss of attraction on his part. Watch this: Understanding Why Your Breakup Happened (Top 4 Reasons) Knowing what happened leads you to the first step in trying to rekindle it, and that's what my Ex Factor Guide does, which you ought to check out. Okay? Since there's been a month's space of "No contact" I think you're now onto the second phase. Watch my other videos as refernece on how to reach out, but get my guide to know all the details on how to go about it. Good luck!
    • Brad Browning
      I would like to help, but I obviously would need to know more about the situation first for me to be in a better position to give an advice specific to your situation. Sign up for my coaching program so I can assess the situation and guide you on a regular basis. Okay? Talk soon!
    • Brad Browning
      How long has it been since the breakup? Give it adequate time and space, I say around a month of "no contact" before sending out your first text message. Talking/texting while things are still heated up (usually within a month of the breakup) is a bad idea. If you've already cut off contact prior to contacting him and still hadn't gotten a response, then wait a week more before sending another message. Follow the tips here and make sure your texts aren't boring. :-) Good luck!
  2. glenda
    my ex and I broke up 3 months ago 2 weeks ago we got back together and a week later broke up we fight a lot .alot.. says he loves me and our kids but it better to just be friends I don't know what to do anymore I need help
    • Brad Browning
      Try to see the sources of these fights first, Glenda...otherwise, it'll just drain you both, okay? Start by asking yourself what has caused these fights and try to get to the bottom of the issue instead of just touching the surface. Cutting off contact for at least a month will naturally help you think clearly, so I really suggest you do that first before anything else. Okay? Watch this: How to Get Your Ex Back ....take care!
  3. divs
    Hey my ex has broke up with me a couple of times and I've begged him to stay and this time I stopped fighting for him to stay cuz I couldn't do the begging anymore and I don't feel right about it. He's really cold and distant ever since he left town(we are in a long distance relationship) plus he wouldn't spare much time for me, when he eventually does we'll argue. He never gave in and he has his side to the story and so do I. He thinks it's always about me but when I'm hurt or upset while the argument is happening he doesn't care(when he's angry nth else matters) and he never compromised it's usually me. But I know I'm selfish too. Now things are over and I'm not sure what to do, sending him a text randomly talking about a memory may seem desperate since he knows me sorta well. I've decided to do the 30-days no contact thing, but what else would you suggest me? Also no.2, do you think it's worth it or should I move on? Would really like you to answer both my questions! I came across your blog and I wish it helps me :)
    • Brad Browning
      Hi there! Sorry to hear about the breakup. It's always your choice to either move on or fight for the relationship, you know him best and I'm in no position to help you decide since I need to know more about your situation first. Sign up for my coaching program instead. Anyway begging/pleading never works, though. Contrary to what other people think, it's actually counterproductive. Watch this: 5 Mistakes... Cutting off communication is the best route to take during this period as it lets you both think clearly instead of blowing things out of proportion and making things worse via endless arguments, okay? It's important to regain your balance first, and this goes the same for him as well. Learn the basics here so what I'm saying on here would make better sense: How to Get Your Ex Back Take care!
  4. Halee
    I am in the no contact period, just over 2 weeks. I bought a gift on Etsy for my ex back in September when we were dating and asked for it to be shipped a week before his birthday. I completely forgot about this gift until Monday when I received notification that it had shipped. I tried to intervene the package through USPS but could not. Do I break no contact and let him know it will arrive tomorrow, or do I keep no contact and if he messages me not to reply. I asked the Etsy shop owner if my name was on the package and she said no. She said that it had a different billing address so there was no invoice in the package. Please help? Thank you
    • Brad Browning
      I suggest to continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule and follow the Ex Factor Guide down to a tee. My guide is much more detailed and the steps are laid out for you, but watch this to get an overview of how this process goes: How to Get Your Ex Back (Step-by-Step Guide to Reversing a Breakup) Anyway if, for some reason, your ex figures out that it came from you, and decides to thank you, a concise response will do. If he continues to talk to you, be sure not to bring up any drama or any argument. Okay? The cooler you handle the situation, the better.

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