So you know that getting back with your ex is a bad idea. You know that you and him, for whatever reason, are ultimately incompatible. And you know that if by some magic you do get back together with your ex boyfriend, it wouldn’t last very long.
At the same time, your heart aches, and he’s all you can think about. And as hard as you try, you can’t help but to think about how good it will feel to actually get back together with him. [RELATED: How To Get Over A Breakup]
Somehow, you just want to get over those feelings so you can move on!
So if you’re struggling to forget about him, then I have some good news for you: What you’re feeling right now is completely temporary! Yes, even though you think you’ll never get over him, you can get over him if you want to. It might not happen over night, but I guarantee you if you follow these simple steps, you’ll vastly increase the likelihood that you’ll get over your ex boyfriend as quickly as possible.
1.) Date Other Men
I know it’s difficult to even fathom right now, but you’ve got to put yourself out there! I know there’s probably no other guy out there that you can think of, but after you’ve been on a few dates, I guarantee you that you will feel a hundred times better about yourself.
And who knows? Maybe you’ll meet “the next one” sooner than you think. And when you do, you’ll forget about your ex faster than you say “thanks, LoveLearnings.com!” If you want tips on how to attract the right guy, then read this.
2.) Go On An Adrenaline Adventure
Yes, adrenaline is a sure-fire way to help you forget about something. How in the heck could you think about “him” when you’re white water rafting? I guarantee you that you’ll be too busy having too much fun. So go on an adventure! Even something as simple and easy as renting scooters with friends for a day could count.
Keeping your mind occupied is key here, and a little bit of “shock therapy” is exactly what the doctor ordered!
3.) Pick Up A New Hobby!
Have you ever wanted to learn how to salsa dance? How to paint? How to knit? Think of something that you’ve always wanted to do and then do it. Don’t dedicate your life to thinking about him – dedicate your life to something good. Just something that will benefit you a few years from now!
4.) Just Time.
Yes, yes… I know you didn’t read this because you wanted a lecture, but time is the greatest factor when determining whether you get over this guy or not. So the longer you don’t talk to him, the more likely you are to get over him as soon as possible. As the old adage goes, “Time heals all wounds.”
So there you have it! Good luck… and if you want, please leave a comment at the bottom of this post with questions and I’ll do my best to get back to you!