Comments on: 10 Things You Should Never Say To Your Ex

By: Lauren

Lauren — Mon, 22 Aug 2022 20:33:07 +0000

Hi Brad,

My girlfriend decided we should go on a break on my birthday, we have been together nearly 5 years in jan. We lived together meaning I had to go back to my parents. Her reasoning is that she sees me do stuff recently that she don’t like and can’t get behind, like the way I spoke to one of my parents not to long ago. I am suffering with anxiety and depression and that is most likely why I have been out of character recently, I do go to therapy again as I stopped for a little bit. We have barely spoke and if we have it’s not been mutual, I’m always the one messaging. I did go to our house while she was at work one day and I saw everything had been cleaned and was obviously trying to keep herself busy. She also has been coming home according to the ring doorbell late every night, should this be a concern that we won’t resume our relationship? As far as I was awear we had slight issues but was still overall happy, If only she told me how she was feeling from when the thought first popped into her head then I would of been able to give myself a reality check and sort my attitude out

Thanks for reading

By: Sandra

Sandra — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 21:41:20 +0000

Me and my ex were best friends for years before dating. he was always in love with me and when we started dating it was really intense but fun! we dated for 7 months and we lived together in the end. his mom passed away and he decided to suddenly move to a new city, working in nightlife saying that i could not be there. We have spoken a few times afterwards, he has reached out saying he will always love me and misses me. I lashed out 3 times saying basically all these words on here. He still comes back and checks what i do on social media and stuff. I really want this guy back but i KNOW i have sound desperate a few times. it was not the ending I expected. While we were dating he always said i was the one and that he would never find anyone like me. But working in nightlife did make me jealous at times. He is already hanging out with different girls all the time, might just be friendships but it is hard. I wish he would want me back but actually also change and pursue me. I don’t understand how he just woke up one day wanting to leave telling me i couldn’t come with. I was quiet for 14 days, then responded back an angry message. I will start my no contact again from today but I feel really anxious. I never viewed myself as jealous or paranoid, I feel like he did put me in situations that anyone would have reacted to.

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How To Get A Married Man To Sleep With You — Thu, 01 Aug 2019 06:26:50 +0000

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By: Ashley gomes

Ashley gomes — Sun, 21 Jul 2019 05:52:06 +0000

Hi Brad. My long distance boyfriend broke up with me 1.5month ago on the excuse that I dont make him happy anymore. He dislikes my laziness and wants me to become perfectionist all around while Im before him. When I tried to convince him by a sort of begging when he said that he only can stay as friends because his single life making him more happy than my presence even after 12months relationship. Do I have any chance about getting him back? Suggest the strategies. Already implemented no contact but he didnt contact me 🙁

By: Matthew LaPrade

Matthew LaPrade — Mon, 24 Jun 2019 13:47:41 +0000

Hey Brad,
I purchased your Exfactor Guide a few months ago and maybe I didnt properly follow it correctly, but this is where I stand. I try to keep it short.
3 years ago I met Tara. She was dating a guy in the Navy before me. He hurt her before he had to back out to see, I’m not sure of the exact details but they broke up. I moved in with her. We were obviously a couple and in love. Everything was great, I absolutely love her. It started going sideways in Nov, fighting, not talking, fighting about her 8 year old son, etc. In Jan she told me she wants to break up and she wanted me to move out. I couldn’t move out until April and we rarely talked or saw each other, even on the weekends. I was I guess going through a mini depression, I wouldn’t even leave the house while she went out all the time. The night before I was going to move out was the first time I ever seen her cry and act sad, and the next morning she talked herself and me to stay for another month, still not together though. End of April I went on a date and she found out about it and went crazy, saying I cheated and so on. She told me then that the whole time we were together she was still in contact with navy boy and she loves him. I’ve been living at a hotel ever since, close to work. A .month ago or so she did admit, or just say, that she still loves me, but she also loves him and they talk everyday and hes coming in June for a visit. The past month ,even though still not together together we acted like a couple, I would stay a night or two at her house, sex of course, but she wouldn’t hide the fact that she still talks to him daily and he’s still coming in June. Obviously she knows I wanted to he with her, and I know I should of walked away months earlier, and that for the past month she “had” to meet him to see if there were still real feelings there and if not it would be her closure, so we could maybe work on us. Two weeks ago, one week before his visit, was our best week we had together in months. I was there the whole week, she said she wanted to marry me, she cant wait until he comes so she can get him out of her system, and then we can work on us. She swears she was torn between us and the day before navy boy came she made it sound to me and all her friends that she was about to just call it off. The morning of her “closure’ weekend as she was driving to work she texted me to say she just needs this weekend to get closure, even though we agreed it would just be Friday night only, and she promised he would sleep on the couch, and of course no sex. I went to a friend’s house for the weekend. She kept saying ” 2 days for the rest of our lives ‘ lol. Obviously all weekend I was a wreck, for we seemed closer more then ever that whole week. On Monday I was driving home and last minute she tells me hes still there and she needs space, and didn’t want me to stay there for right now, and that she she still feels in love with him and cant cut ties with him. She swore there was no sex lol. Obviously I didnt believe any of it. A few days ago she asked me over for dinner. Obviously it lead to sex and while it was happening I saw two huge hickeys on both her inner thighs. She still lied and said they were just bruises but eventually that night she finally came clean. I like flipped out. Last night she asked me over again for dinner and to talk. Basically she said shes still torn, she doesn’t want to be without me but she still loves him and they still talk daily; and she cant cut ties with him. I was shocked that she started making moves on me and it sounds dumb but I felt then it would probably be the last time; at least for me, that we would spend the night together. So, afterall this time nothing has changed, except waisted time. She never actually says “I just love u and want to be with just u”, its always “hes not an option to he with realistically” making it sound to me if she was with me she would be just settling for me or I’m option B. Is there a realistic chance for us, is she really torn, did she already choose him and just doesn’t want to tell me, or finally should I just walk away and never look back?

By: firdauskhan

firdauskhan — Tue, 07 May 2019 12:41:36 +0000

Hi brad I broke up with my ex 5 months ago and we are just friends now we don’t talk regularly we just talk on instagram we are in same School and whenever we see each other we both pass a smile but we don’t talk in school he is really friendly with other girls that makes me jealous…
Please brad tell me what to do I love him so much

By: Daniela

Daniela — Wed, 24 Apr 2019 13:30:55 +0000

Great advice, wish I had read it a week ago. Broke up with my partner, don’t want him back, just want to stop obsessing about him.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Sun, 07 Apr 2019 21:28:38 +0000

It’s been 4 months since my break up. This month going on 5 I really want my ex back he has gave me hot and cold signals. I know for a fact he still has feelings for me. We live together for about 6 months and the relationship was about 1 year and 3 months. I need your help Coach Brad please on getting the love of my life back I know I mess up the no contact and other stuff but PLEASE.

By: Jannat Oishi

Jannat Oishi — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 10:42:46 +0000

Hey
I met up with my ex after 2 years of breakup.And i told him that I miss him and i feel deppressed and empty etc.
I cried for several times infront of him.
After that we stayed together for 2h and i could find some interest he showd on me.I told that we are not gonna meet up again this is the last time but he told that we will meet in future.
I dont know what did he mean
How can i get back him? Can u plz help me

By: Lena

Lena — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 13:43:33 +0000

Brad, after a couple of weeks of texting my ex texted me back. And then I texted him this: ” BTW. For the record… I did notice you look at me in the car when you wanted to hold hands, but I was looking in the window ? lol
Sleep tight! ”

No response. Texted him again on Thanksgiving Eve. Radio silence. Did I MESS UP???