It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til’ the end so you don’t end up missing the important points: How To Get Your Ex Back (Step-By-Step Guide To Reversing A Breakup)
and the golden rules here: 5 Golden Rules To Obey If You Want Your Ex Back

She likely needs some time for herself, so give her that. Let her miss you first instead. It’s totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back…and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at http://www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

She said she’d lost attraction for me as the reason for the breakup

My situation is that my girlfriend of just over two years suddenly asked for a break whilst we were in the midst of an argument which I did not perceive as very serious. After some thought, I agreed to it. Later that night she requested that we absolve the break and get back together, citing that she had made a terrible mistake. I ofc agreed and for a day, things seemed fine. However, the rest of the week she seemed very off with me, barely replying. When I probed her after three days of this, she reassured me all was well and that she was just busy. Then, she went out with some new friends and the very next day ended the relationship face to face. I did not beg or plead, i said okay and then texted that i respected her decision and am going to use our time apart to work on myself. Do you have any idea on where I should proceed from here? I’m her first relationship, we’re both at uni and I’d say part of our problem was that I was too available and too controlling of things.

Hello, Neri! Before jumping back with her, try to see the roles that you both played that led to the breakup in the first place. Otherwise, this pattern will continue and it’s not doing you any favour at all — if you think longterm. Here, read this first to know what to expect: Things You Must Learn If You’re in an On-and-Off Relationship. You ought to get out of this destructive pattern with her. A relationship can only survive one too many breakups. So for starters, try to see the root cause of all these fights. Who started most of these and what are you two fighting about? Cut off contact until you get to clear your head and see the situation from an objective perspective. Good luck!

Hello Rahul, what did you mean by your relationship is not correct? That obviously played a role, so I’d appreciate a little explanation on that. Anyway sorry but you may be too needy when you tried contacting her when it’s only been two weeks. I recommend to give her space for at least a month. Have you read my Ex Factor Guide yet? Sending her stuff through the mail was a bad idea as well, as you can see. You may have to do the “no contact” rule again and start over to square one. Watch this: No Contact, Does IT Work to Get Your Ex Back?

Hi there, Amanda. Adding more negativity to an already volatile situation may put the nail in the coffin, so try to be aware of that and not do it again, all right? 🙂 Anyway yes, cut off contact for at least a month as this will naturally help to dissipate all that negativity and get you both to start thinking clearly again. You’d both likely laugh it off since that may have just been a misunderstanding. Your goal right now though is to make sure you don’t do anything that would unknowingly sabotage the situation, all right? Be aware of the stuff I talked about here: 5 Mistakes that Ruin Your Chances… but really, you ought to read my Ex Factor Guide so you’ll have an in-depth knowledge on how to go about it including what to say, do, etc. Good luck!