By: Allyson

Allyson — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 13:36:01 +0000

Hi! I was with someone for 2 months and everything was so passionate and intensive. I am 28 and he is 37. He was doing future plans and saying that he was in love with me. After that we broke up by text, because he said he didn’t have time due to his job in police and then ghosted me. I didn’t beg and plead, and I did no contact for 1 month. He has only WhatsApp and after breakup he deleted my number and made his last seen available only for his contacts. After that I contact him first and started texting him everyday but I was trying to cut the conversation short. Because he is in police and he knows about psychology nothing seems to work. His responces were short. I initiating conversation first and sometimes he is replying fast and others he reads and ignores my messages. But I don’t really know why if he doesn’t want to do anything with me as a person why he bothers to answer. Btw our attachment styles, I am anxious and he is avoidant. I haven’t said anything about our breakup those 3 weeks that we were texting and I am trying to act cool and the texts are about his job due to pandemic and funny gifs. I am doing no contact again because I don’t know how to approach him and I don’t know if he is with another girl, because when we were together he used to saying that I was his longest relationship, because the others were only for 2-3 weeks. I am losing my hope and I think I made so many mistakes. 2 months have passed since our breakup. Should I keep no contact again, or forget about him and move on? I still like him and I don’t know what to do!

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By: Allyson