How often have you tried to bring up the topic and what exactly were your issues with her? Make sure you pick a good time to bring up the topic that’s convenient for BOTH of you so she’ll be more receptive to hearing it. Also try to bring positive moments because if you complain a lot, chances are she might want to drop the ball here. However, if she’s already your ex, trust me, discussing feelings should be the last priority. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I get to know more about the situation and what’s going on, at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!