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You are here: Home1 / Relationships2 / 5 Tips to Rock His World In Bed

5 Tips to Rock His World In Bed

By Amy North

Women's Dating Coach

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Sex is extremely important in a relationship, and knowing how to rock your guy’s world will not only make the two of you feel close, but it’ll also keep him satisfied and loyal.

I know it’s sad to say that if you aren’t sexually satisfying your man in bed then he may leave you or look elsewhere for this sort of fulfillment, but it’s true. Just like you have your needs in a relationship, so does he.

1. Frequency

How often you fulfill your man’s sexual desires plays a huge part in his overall satisfaction.

So, take some time to think about how often you and your man engage in sex. Is it once a week, once a month, every day, or next to never?

This may or may not be something your man has communicated to you, but if he has told you that he wants more sex, or would like to turn up the heat and get intimate on a more frequent basis, then make a point to do so. Him telling you this is a huge advantage – he’s telling you exactly what he wants and needs from you.

If he hasn’t come right out and said so it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s content with the amount of sex you’re having, but instead maybe he’s too shy to bring it up, or doesn’t want to have that conversation. Take some time to think about which of you usually initiate sex. If more often than not it’s him, then it may be your turn to get things going.

2. Variety

In the beginning of your relationship, the sex might have been amazing. But even the sexiest, steamiest situations will lose their magic if done time and time again. In other words, if you’re not mixing things up in your sex routine then it’s going to get stale.

Make a point to switch things up and introduce variety into your sex life. For instance, if you’re usually on the bottom, then jump on top. If you always do it in the bedroom, explore a new space together.

What time of day do you prefer sex? While there’s no “right answer” here, what I do encourage you to take away from this point is that you should be changing up your routine – including your schedule and what time of day you and your man have sex. After all, keeping your sex life fresh and exciting will not only rock his world, but it’ll also keep you feeling excited about sex.

For tips on how to be the type of woman every man wants to sleep with, visit my site and watch the free video presentation.

3. Fantasies and Fetishes

Whether he’ll admit to it or not, every man has sexual fantasies. Of course, some of these he will be more open to sharing with you than others, but if you can get your guy to tell you a little bit about his deepest, darkest desires, then you’ll have a leg up and the opportunity to give him what he wants most.

Being able and open to exploring your man’s fantasies and fetishes will not only give the two of you an entirely new sexual experience to share together, and it also lessens the likelihood of him looking elsewhere for this sort of satisfaction, not to mention how much it’ll spice up your otherwise same-old sex life!

Don’t be afraid to share your fantasies too! Telling your guy exactly what you want is not only attractive but it’ll also encourage him to open up to you too.

4. Intensity

The thing to keep in mind here is the type of sex you and your man are having. For example, is all of your sex slow and passionate, or is it fast and intense? Do you enjoy it, or is the goal to make him to orgasm?

Showing your man that you enjoy sex is one of the best compliments you can pay him. Your pleasure will not only turn him on, but it’ll also make him feel accomplished and proud. He’ll see you in a state of bliss and be able to take credit for it… unlike if you’re laying there motionless and quiet, which will make him second guess himself.

So then, to make it known that you’re enjoying yourself show or express it during the act. Whether this means making some noise, talking dirty to him, clenching the headboard or letting your body shake with sensation, do so. Filtering how you feel won’t do either of you any favours.

5. Teasing

These days it seems like everyone and their mother is busy with the tasks and duties of day-to-day life. In fact, sometimes simply making time for sex can even seem impossible. But regardless of how busy, tired, or not in the mood you may be, you should not only prioritize sex, but make time for teasing, too!

Engaging in foreplay will not only spice up your sex life. It will also do half of the work for you. Meaning, instead of being left to turn on your man and hope that he achieves orgasm, you’ll be getting him all hot and bothered before the two of you even get going!

Take some time to learn your man’s hot spots and make note of the things he seems to enjoy most. It can be nerve racking, but try new things on him, and ask what feels best. Believe me, he’ll appreciate this.

Amy North

Amy North, BA, BSc, is a woman’s best friend. If you’re searching for the man of your dreams, or you want make your boyfriend stay devoted to you, then Amy North is your gal! Amy's incredibly popular YouTube channel, which boasts over 340,000 subscribers and 20+ million views, helps women learn how to get what they want out of their relationships. Her best-selling program, The Devotion System, reveals a number of psychological ‘hot buttons’ that make any man 'tick', and teaches readers how to use simple techniques and phrases to make any man love you.

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Amy North
Dating Coach

Amy NorthAmy North is a dating coach specializing in women's dating issues. She helps ladies around the world find 'Mr Right' and overcome commitment or other relationship issues. Amy is author of the #1 best-selling "Devotion System" program. She also runs one of the most popular dating advice channels on YouTube, with more than half a million subscribers.

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