Does he know you know? You ought to pick a good time to discuss this and let out your frustrations about the incident once and for all. See how that conversation goes first. If you decide to end things, I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials and important stuff having to do with your kids. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: http://y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND http://y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it’s hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! But if it’s still confusing for you, hire me as your coach so I get to know more about your situation and therefore be in a great position to advise accordingly. Good luck and be strong!

Sorry to hear you’re going through all this. You’re right. The process of saving one’s marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the “no contact” rule… but this is why I’ve released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at http://www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what’s going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I’ve dedicated solely for this purpose. Here’s the link: How to Save Your Marriage or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program. Talk soon?

Getting over an affair and rebuilding trust takes teamwork and she seems to be on board as well. Try to apply the tips from this vid: How to Rebuild Trust After An Affair.

Hi! That’s great. You’re welcome! If you ever need the step-by-step process on what to do next after this, or what to say, get my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide along with the free bonus materials to help you out further. Good luck and all the best to your journey, man!

Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: https://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Try to make the necessary improvements and focus on that first, man. You will get there sooner or later but yes, right now, your ex really needs space from you and I’m glad you understand and accept that. If you’re hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it’s a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it’s best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic “no contact” rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I’ve posted: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTjEAGJWTuA AND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDZrnNh8LOg

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My husband tells me he isn’t in love with me anymore and that I’m basically boring him. He says it’s been building for years but honestly it’s really only been an issue for the last 2 years since I’ve had health issues. Our sex life has drastically suffered as well as our social life as I am in pain 24/7 from my health conditions. He was quite understanding at first but now he wants out. (Apparently through sickness and in health doesn’t apply to him ). At first he wanted to have an open marriage so we would still be together but he’d get to go sleep with and have relationships with other women (I believe this is strictly a financial issue as he doesn’t want to lose all our assets). But I am not ok with this arrangement. I’ve been trying to do small things to improve myself and not being so negative all the time (which is difficult when you are in pain a lot and have limited mobility) but he thinks it’s all “fake” and that I’m just trying to manipulate him. I honestly don’t feel I can save us. Any advice?