Comments on: 7 Signs He’s Losing Interest In You (And What To Do About It)

By: Lisa

Lisa — Sun, 24 Oct 2021 17:49:02 +0000

Hey Amy…my boyfriend has started texting me ever since I created a gap between us thus;using the no contact for 30 days….
He seems to love me still but I don’t know what to do next cos he has been texting me off late

By: zortilonrel

zortilonrel — Tue, 05 Jan 2021 05:07:30 +0000

Today, I went to the beachfront with my children. I found a sea shell and gave it to my 4 year old daughter and said “You can hear the ocean if you put this to your ear.” She placed the shell to her ear and screamed. There was a hermit crab inside and it pinched her ear. She never wants to go back! LoL I know this is completely off topic but I had to tell someone!

By: Karen Johnson

Karen Johnson — Fri, 08 May 2020 02:07:51 +0000

I read the comments. I’m currently in a relationship with my first love. I was 19. He was 23. He was and still is from Australia. I’m in the US.
I walked away from him 46 years ago but he stayed in my heart. When Australis was on fire I watched in horror. I hunted him down and was prepared to sponsor him and entire family to US as emergency refugees. Had no idea of his circumstances. Turns out he had been looking for me several years prior but didn’t know my married name. In summary all I can offer is if it was meant to be, it’ll happen. He was heaven sent. And he feels the same. So if you love him…carry on with your bad self, take care of yourself and drive on. He’ll find his way back or you’ll find him if your terrified he may be in trouble. You won’t worry about pride, or games. Like the fellow said above you’ll get very real and honest and reach out. If you love him talk to him kindly and ask what’s going on in his head. Forget guessing and reading signs. Straight up honest. It’s the basis of any sound relationship. As long as it’s done with love and kindness and understanding. After all, how else do you really want to talk to the man you love? Push off anger and frustration. Its about communication. Clear, kind and loving communication. You’ll start feeling the love again. I promise.

By: Tamee

Tamee — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 06:46:33 +0000

Hello Amy . I wanted to tell you a little about my situation. Ive been married for 5 yrs. my husband is from morocco. He arrived in thee U.S. 4 yrs ago. Since them He has “Claimed I have abused him and tried to control him. Which is absolutely wrong. He had never been here and I was trying to guild him in the right direction in a lot of things. Well The last year have been pretty bad, No affection, communication, even stoped texting me, except if he is complaining. well Jan 4th i was really mad with him, Big fight, i have felt that he has been cheating so i asked him, He tells me that he has never done that and he wont and he has not been talking to any one. This fight ended in he was talking about leaving when he found something. After this i was very stressed i could hardly function , even going to work was hard , a lot of anxiety, i felt like i had to be at home. Well let me say , my husband babies his phone , computer, keeps me locked out of it. One day I looked on his watch , it is connected to his phone, and saw a message from him and a female talking about meeting up and having sex. I took pictures of it and did not say any thing for a couple days. By this time from the fight to the messages, it has been a month, And i questioned myself , thought about all that has happened and came to a realization that i was gonna change how i treated him, how i talk to him, everything. , I started this all before i found the messages. So when i did ask him, I had just returned home from work, We was out side, and i sat hime down and asked him, “Is he absolutely sure he has never lied to me.” He response was , no i have never lied to you. I said Ok IM gonna ask you one more time, and i asked again. He ask why, i told him let me see your phone and ill show him, what it is. he refused, so i took his arm and showed him the messages , I will never forget his look, He turn white as a ghost, and said OH. so then i ask what was this about. He swore to me he never did it, never meet her. He said he did not know how she got his number , he did not know what she looked like or anything anyway, A friend of ours that stays with us , told on him, and told me he had meet her at his job and asked for his #. As of today , he has improved a lot, but still has some flaws. and this all came about just this past week, I watched a video, and had an idea, Before this video, he was distant and would not communicated, no attention from him , (i did not exist) . So I sat him sown and told him i had something to say, I asked him what did he want from me, what was it that he needed from me to be happy and to make things better. He told me he is trying to get past the past and that ive done everything that he has ever wanted , that there is nothing he could want. So I told him what i wanted , I said that i want communication, I want him to tell me when something bothers him, when he hurts, ect. So he did his anxiety thing, so i sat beside him and said ” ok If you have to leave, I accept it, But Ill miss you.” and said nothing else. sat for 30 sec. this look he gave after that was priceless. I got up, started walking away and he says where you going. I was just going to the couch, but he thought something else. From this day 4 days ago, he looks at me , talks to me, we have been doing thing together, I still give him space, but things seem to be improving, it will take sometime. It was just in time because i was not sure i could hold on much longer. Thank you Any for your videos and support.

By: Marie louise Quinn

Marie louise Quinn — Wed, 18 Dec 2019 04:28:09 +0000

my boyfriend dosent want me near him in bed in the heat he reckons. he blames every thing on me.i know I got faults .I just wanna be close to him

By: Simply believe

Simply believe — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 01:56:22 +0000

Me and my partner just recently went from living together to different towns because of work and my children when we’re together things our awesome and hes phone doesn’t work well but I have expressed to him I had something important to tell him and the last few days and all i get for texts where “I passed right out last night” then I texts him I few things staying how I had some big news I want to discuss with him tell him and how something us hasn’t been going so well and all I got was I’m tired and need to sleep eat shower and there’s no service where he stay I feel like he could if at least said I’m sorry but I’m tired and need rest I don’t want freak out and be over needy but should I be acknowledging the fact that he doesn’t seem to be interested in what I have to tell him He knows it’s regarding something I’ve been waiting for a year to found out about

By: Private

Private — Mon, 26 Aug 2019 23:12:40 +0000

My boyfriend drives a big rig. And I ride with him ,so we are together all the time we have been together for almost 1 year and he has these spurts where he doesn’t want to talk ill.say something and he shrugs his shoulders.i dont get it we used to have sex all the time after set he rolls over and doesn’t like to hold me no touching. This is the only time he touches me. Am I doing something wrong

By: Merewai Waqavakatoga

Merewai Waqavakatoga — Thu, 08 Aug 2019 21:40:36 +0000

Amy thanks..i love your article…my partner doesnt show all the signs of drawing back…..but we argue alot….and we both end up say nasty things to each other….its nothing new to us….but now the issue is finanace

By: Mejustme

Mejustme — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 07:50:38 +0000

In reply to Jane Doe. I know you want to take a tight grip in the relationship but if a wife or fiancé or girlfriend has done wrong then it’s over unless you come out straight up immediately and explain yourself. Ya men don’t want to hear none of the bullshit because we already knew you were fucking around anyway. Men play dumb but the smart ones are always ahead of the game. If you were very good at hiding it then stop and come out later and have a serious talk with him when the opportunity presents itself maybe you caught him doing something or you guys had a real serious fight then you bring it up and lay it all on the table and you will go through a few weeks of hell but hopefully for you it’s was long ago and if it’s recent then prepare for yourself for the worst but at least you kept real for yourself and him too. We are human and make mistakes and we have to live with it. He can leave and if he really believes you changed and if he really lives you then he will go back but give him a little space and time. Or he leaves forever. Then you have to prepare yourself for the loss. You can’t live with that wieght in your shoulders and keep it a secret for a your lifetime. As a man, I would rather deal with it now than later. Good luck

By: Menjustmr

Menjustmr — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 07:50:15 +0000