Humour is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs, you know. For some of you guys out there, making a girl laugh is easy. For you blessed folk, you have a huge advantage. For some of us, however, making girls laugh is rather difficult.
This isn’t a skill that can be developed overnight.
No, being charming, witty, and funny is something that takes a lot of practice if you aren’t naturally gifted with this skill.
Overdo, and you risk just looking like a fool. However, not enough humour just makes you look like Captain Serious. Nobody likes a Captain Serious!
It also helps if you know how to talk to women in general before reading this article. A funny guy without anything else is just a glorified comedian, right?
Who Do YOU Think Is Funny?
So how do you develop this skill? Well, first you have to sort of emulate who you think is funny. For example, do you find Will Ferrell to be funny? Pick a few famous comedians and then start watching their material. Look at their body posture, their delivery, what they say, and how they act.
By simply observing your favourite comedians (and picking them apart), you can pick up on some similarities between all of them.
Humour is something that’s difficult to define. Why is something funny? Why does your brain interpret it the way it does, and why does it make you laugh? It’s a little abstract, but believe it or not, there are some proven “formulas” that have been proven to make a lot of people laugh.
The Art Of The Laugh!
The classic “pie in the face” is proven to be a funny act (for its time). Through pop culture and time, the “pie in the face” prank has actually evolutionized into something different. Ever watch the move Jackass? Jackass is far more extreme (and often times, disgusting) version of the “pie in the face” joke.
Now, I’m not saying that you should take a pie and throw it at her face — because that probably won’t work. However, just know that you can identify other trends in humour that the majority of people find funny.
One of the easiest ways to make people laugh is the “self deprecating” kind of humour. Pick on yourself a little — you’ll notice a lot of other comedians like Adam Sandler and Louis CK do the same thing. Talk about something you do really badly. And talk about how it led to some very unfortunate circumstances.
Picking up girls isn’t about bragging and showing yourself off in a positive light, sometimes saying like: “I am so bad at painting, I’m pretty sure that 4-year-old over there could school me.”
Where’s the Punchline?
And always have a punch line in the back of your head.
However, there are a few things to be careful about. Remember, you don’t want to overdo the humour too much.
First of all, you want people to take you seriously. If you’re constantly trying to make jokes, it might get a little annoying. If a good opportunity comes up to make a joke, then make it, but do not go out of your way to constantly make light of the situation.
Secondly, it’s really easy to fall into the dreaded friend zone. Make sure that your jokes exude sexual value as well — that means making sexual innuendos every now and then. And that also means making fun of her every now and then!
Some famous seductionists swear by attraction through humour, and charming a woman through the art of humour is not only effective, but fun as well!
So if you want to learn how to date women better, then try this tactic out. It works.