Is Sleeping With Your Ex A Good Idea?
“Dear LoveLearnings.com – and this one is for, specifically, Brad Browning!
My boyfriend broke up with me about 5 months ago. I can’t say I’m that heartbroken anymore, but I’m definitely still attracted to him. Just recently, about a week ago, he’s been text messaging me and asking me all sorts of questions. He’s also been talking quite sexually to me and asking me to hang out.
I know that he wants sex (most likely), and I can’t say I would deny him the pleasure.
I’m worried that if I have sex with him, things will get complicated. I might even fall back in love with him, or worse! However, I wouldn’t mind a night or two …
Thank you so much for your time, Brad!
Kelly Williamson
Dublin, Ireland”
Should you have a sexy night with your ex?
Thank you so much for your question, Ms. Williamson.
A No Brainer
This one is pretty simple, to be honest. I don’t think I need to give you an in-depth answer for this.
If you think you’ll fall back in love with him, you probably are going to.
The simple fact that you said you’re worried you’re going to fall back in love with him is proof enough that you shouldn’t sleep with him.
Second, if he’s making it clear that all he wants is sex, then that means he only wants sex. Nothing else.
If he wanted to get back together with you, he would have phrased this request with a completely different set of words. So if you do get together with him, keep in mind that all he’ll want to do is get into your pants.
Do You Really Want to Get Back Together?
Third, if you do want him back, having sex with him right away isn’t going to help you get him back. No, if you’ve read my book (The Ex Factor Guide), then you’ll know why exactly you shouldn’t do this.
If you really do want your ex back, then I highly recommend you check out my brand new, free video. In it, I explore whether you should be having sex with your ex or not. I’ll be talking about 7 psychological tricks you could be employing right now that will make your ex beg to get back together with you.
Good luck!
Brad Browning
Brad Browning is widely regarded as the world's most trusted breakup experts, boasting over 12 years of experience working with clients from around the world. Brad's #1 best-selling breakup reversal guide, The Ex Factor, has helped more than 130,000 people from 131 countries to re-unite with an ex. Brad is also the author of Mend The Marriage, a comprehensive self-help guide that teaches married couples how to save their dying marriage and prevent divorce. Brad’s YouTube channel has over 400,000 subscribers and 50 million views, and he has been featured in a number of well-known media outlets and industry journals.