You’re fresh into a brand new relationship. Everything is bright and shiny and you really don’t want to muck this one up because you really like her.
You want to go the extra mile for her just to make her feel special and keep her.
Well, there’s a plethora of things you can do to impress this girl. You could buy her flowers. Buy her dinner. Buy her drinks. Give her gifts.
Yadda yadda yadda …
And, don’t get me wrong, that will most definitely make her feel special. But you don’t want to go overboard with this stuff otherwise she’ll think you’re weak.
Doing Little Things Right
To make her really feel special, you’ve got to do all the little things right. You’ve got to show her that you care for her deeper than just the frivolous gifts and dinners. You need to show her that you value her in a way that no other guy can match. For this, you’ll need to dig a little bit deeper.
You’ll want to get to really know her from the inside out. What really makes her tick? What makes her go crazy. What things are special to her?
Let’s start off with an example.
Say she’s really into painting. Sure, the easy solution to make her feel special is to buy her a cool painting or a ticket to some art gallery. That might make her feel pretty special. But it’s not about throwing money and gifts at her — it’s about showing her that you truly have an understanding for her passion.
So instead of buying her a painting, buy yourself a painting set. Surprise her one day with this — then arrange for you two to paint something together.
Get what I’m getting at?
Making a girl feel special also isn’t about knowing her passions and what she cares about. It’s also about knowing her weaknesses, too.
Is she scared of public speaking? Is she nervous about her next dance recital? Does she suffer from anxiety due to her exam next week? Some women don’t handle pressure well.
So again, do the little things right. Maybe to ease the tensions and the nerves, you’ll arrange a massage session — but instead of any regular massage session, go all out. Get a massage table. Get some scented oils. Get some basic massage lessons, then blow her away.
The list goes on and on!
Thank me later.