If you’re reading this, you may be thinking that there’s no one out there for you. You’ve been single for what feels like forever and you’ve lost all hope of finding any man, never mind a good one.
I want to share a few stories that will show you that finding love is not only possible, it’s inevitable.
These come directly from women who I’ve worked with to help find love and build healthy, lasting romantic relationships.
When she was younger, Ashley had no problem getting men to notice and approach her. She was the life of the party, fun and caring, and beautiful in a non-conventional sort of way. She dated around for a while, then she met Kyle who swooped her up and made her his own.
After dating for three years, Kyle decided that he wanted to be with other people and ended their relationship. At first Ashley didn’t care much, she said she’d been missing the single life and was fine with getting back on the scene.
Getting ready for a night out with the girls, she was excited about the prospective men she planned on meeting that night. The entire night though, not a single man even acknowledged her. Disappointed, she convinced herself that it was just an off night and that she would meet someone great soon. But, week after week, no men. After being in a relationship for three years it seemed like she had “forgotten” how to be single.
Once Ashley got her hands on The Devotion System she not only was able to master the art of attraction, but she was quick to realize all the mistakes she had been making. Now she has dates lined up for weeks, and even Kyle is pining after her again!
Next I want to jump to a lady named Liz. When she introduced herself to me she was absolutely heartbroken. The man she loved had left her, and life as she knew it was over.
Desperate to get him back, Liz made all the mistakes. That’s right, the constant calling and texting, crying and begging him to take her back. She even went as far as displaying her sadness for all to see on Facebook. Of course, none of this worked, and, at a loss, Liz contacted me.
I’ll spare you the details, but let’s just say that after working together Liz not only got her man back, but the two of them are happier and more in love than ever before.
Leah’s story is one that so many of use have experienced. She and her husband Travis had been married for two years, and together for eight. Over the last year though, the spark in their marriage had vanished.
There are two types of vanishing. One of them is temporary, and is usually caused when something else, be it a busy schedule, stress, or personal ambition gets in the way. The other vanishing is the type that creeps in and distances couples, making one, or something even both partners feel alone and powerless. This is what Leah was dealing with.
When I asked Leah if something had triggered Travis’ distance, she couldn’t pinpoint a specific reason. That’s when I got her to fully explain in detail the dynamics of their marriage–everything from who did the grocery shopping to how much time they were spending together and what their separate lives were like.
From here we were able to make a list of some of the more serious issues in their marriage, and created a to-do list for Leah to try out.
The list worked wonders for reigniting their spark and pulling Travis back in. In fact, he even apologized to her and today the couple have better communication and are back to feeling like newlyweds.