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"Does My Ex Want Me Back?" (Signs To Look For)

NOTE: The best way to find out if your ex will take you back is to take this free quiz.

Are you stumped because you can’t figure out whether your ex wants you back? Or is he or she actually just playing with you…

If you can’t tell, I’ve compiled a list of proven indicators that will tell you whether or not your ex is interested in getting back together with you or not.

1.) Communication – The Key To Finding Out

man on phone talking to his ex Does your ex try and make contact with you?

If you’ve been following my advice at all on how to deal with your ex, you should know that one of the things that you must do is not contact your ex for about 30 days. However, in this time, it’s very possible that your ex will try and communicate with you in this time (even though he or she was the one that broke it off with you). This technique is what I call the Rekindling Phase.  If your ex is constantly trying to contact you (without you provoking this action), this is a very good signal that your ex, at the very least, does indeed miss you.

So how do you deal with this?  [RELATED: Should I Talk To My Ex?]

Well, if you want your ex back, then take your time in replying to them. Make them wait. And when you do reply, say something really simple, light, and short. For example, if your ex texts you “how are you?” Wait about 2-3 hours then reply with, “Hey! I’ve been very good. Hope all is well.”

Keep things positive and light.

2.) They Flirt.

I’m guessing if you’re reading this, some line of communication is still present between you and your ex. That is, they’re contacting you or you’re contacting them. Now, what they say to you is extremely telling if they want you back or not. Do they flirt with you? Do they seem happy to talk to you?

If they’re conveying sexual interest in what they say to you, this is one of the best indicators that your ex still wants you.

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3.) They Want To Meet Up.

ex flirting with womanEven if it’s a stupid excuse to see you, if they show a desire to want to meet up with you, then it’s pretty clear that they don’t want the relationship to be over. Now, at this point, you should never, ever indicate to them that you want meet up with them (yet). However, if he or she asks you to hang out, then tell them you’re busy for now.

This will drive them crazy with desire. [RELATED: Make Your Ex Chase YOU!]

4.) They Get Jealous.

Watch this video that I made about how to get your ex back (it’s on the right here). Jealousy is one of the biggest indicators that your ex wants you again. So what you need to do is get them to the point where they can get jealous. By using one of the tactics I employ in that video, see how they react.

If your ex begins to act irrationally (angry/mean/depressed), it probably means that they still want you.

5.) They still talk about you to your mutual friends.

Do you two have mutual friends? If your ex is still talking about you to them, there’s a chance that they miss you.

So get in touch with some friends (you should be doing this anyways after a breakup) and prod a little.

Remember that there are a ton of ways to tell if your ex wants you back. If you want a free video on how you can tell if your ex want you back, then click here to watch my video. In it, it goes over not only some ways in which you can tell if your ex still desires you or not, but it also goes over some of the ways you which you can win your ex back even if they say they don’t want you back.

Let me tell you what Mike Richards from Ottawa says…

“Thanks for making this video, Brad. By watching it and doing what the video said, I was able to attract my ex girlfriend back in a matter of weeks.”

Cindy Tanner from Vancouver says…

“My ex boyfriend dumped me and began ignoring my calls. After about 4 weeks of applying Brad Browning’s tactics, he began talking to me. He now says he misses me and wants to meet up. I can’t believe it!”

So head on over to ExFactorGuide.com and check out my video. You won’t regret it!

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About Jessica Raymond

Jessica Raymond, BSc, RCC, is LoveLearnings senior editor. As a relationship counselor, Jessica has helped hundreds of men and women achieve their relationship dreams. Whether it’s finding your one true love or simply charming someone on a date, Jessica's got your back! In her articles, she reveals little-known, psychological tips that will make even the coldest person chase you around like a little puppy.

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Libby
Libby
1 year 2 months ago
Hi Brad. I really don’t know what to do. Yes, I love him and I want him back but I don’t have the guts to talk to him because I know and I’m sure that he is dating someone. Actually, I ended the realationship because I thought he is just waiting for me to say that we’re over. The week before our break-up, he is cold and he always say that he’ll be going somewhere, etc. I cried every night and I thought that letting go was the right thing to do. I know his feelings for me were already fading but he couldn’t say it straight on my face but I can feel it in his actions. After our break-up, his friend asked me what did I do because he called him last night and he said that my ex was crying loud. My heart dropped when I heard… Read more »
Shelby
Shelby
1 year 2 months ago
Hi Brad. I’m really upset right now. I haven’t stop crying for 3days and I did stop but now I’m crying again. It’s been a week since we broke up. We had been together ab 1,6 years. He was the one who interacted first and made me fall for him. Our love was strong and deep. He kept telling me that he gonna marry me anyway. Then suddenly his life becomes busy since his sister and her son moved back to their house because of divorce. He has to spend mostly of the time for family. We started less talking, meeting and other stuffs. There was no calls at all at this time. Then I get upset and keep thinking that he might cheating on me. He strongly denied that all time. I still put a trust on him. Since we had been less interacting with each others I’ve feel… Read more »
Brad Browning
1 year 2 months ago
Hey Shelby, sorry to hear about the breakup. He may be interacting less because he has a lot of stuff going on, not necessarily cheating. Granted how you’re his girlfriend, though, he should’ve communicated to you and not leave you hanging. A breakdown in communication is oftentimes the cause for an otherwise solid relationship to crack. Anyway since he’s been grumpy and things ended badly where he’s likely upset for whatever reason. Stop bombarding him with messages though as that would seem clingy. In fact, since he’s distancing and seem cold and aloof, the last thing you’d want to be doing is bombarding him messages. Let him miss you, instead, okay? He may snap out of it if you show you’re independent and not needing him in any way. Cut off contact for at least a month. Watch this: How to Make Your Ex Miss You Take care!
sid
sid
1 year 2 months ago

sir ….my gf is confused ….sometime she shows she wants me back and some ttm she pushes me away….i m nt sure i think she is dating someone else but she always told me….she is single and last tym we meet for the movie she tried to remind me of some past memories….i dont know what to do now….she used to call me after a gap of 2 or 3 days and she used to talk nicely but then she ignores me…..do u think i should start nc now….its about more then a month for our breakup….i need your advice … i took the quiz it show me 72% chance

Brad Browning
1 year 2 months ago

Hey Sid, sorry to hear that, but yes, cut off contact first, for at least a month. I’ve covered your question here, so watch this: Why Your Ex Gives You the Hot & Cold Treatment Good luck!

Sonu
Sonu
1 year 2 months ago
Hi brad, am Sonu. Here I want to discuss about my BF. He was my Project lead then we fall in love and then in relationship. We had great time together for about 1.6 years. Now when I started asking about marriage, he started avoiding me. one day I got angry and we fought and now completely he blocked me in all communication sites. We belong to 2 different cities of India, Because of difference in our culture and he is one year younger to me – he is not ready to marry me. He is telling his family will not agree but i know majorly he is scared to inform this to his family and friends. Please help me to get him back, he is very rigid kind guy and very confident person but i know he is emotionally weak but in my case he became strong not talking… Read more »
Brad Browning
1 year 2 months ago

Hi Sonu! Give it a little space first and don’t push him, all right? Pressuring him will only make things worse, so try to be patient, especially if this is what’s causing your fights most of the time, all right? Also try to really see what your next action plan is for yourself if he really isn’t ready to get married as you may decide to stay for a while or move on completely, it’s totally up to you. I suggest NOT to make a hasty decision though and try to cut off contact first so you get to think clearly and won’t regret your decision afterwards, okay? Sign up for my coaching program if you’re still unsure what to do next. Good luck!

SP
SP
1 year 7 months ago
My ex and I had an affair. I love him way more than I have ever loved another human being ever in my life. On Feb 20 he abruptly ceased all conversation with me after 18 months of a fairly tumultuous affair and seemed to break everything off with me. He ‘ghosted ‘ me. I was devastated because my first husband had been killed and I still have acute PTSD from that. I went crazy. Three weeks later I found out he was fine and had been lying abut dying and was trolling for pussy online on craigslist. I went insane. I set him up and forwarded the thread to his wife, kid and friend. He found out it was me. Things went downhill from there. I was so hurt he had lied to me and treated me that way. I know what I did was wrong but I was… Read more »
Brad Browning
1 year 7 months ago
Hi there. I hate to say this, but if he’s not only having an affair with you, but going off and meeting a bunch of other women online as well, then this is not a healthy relationship for you to be in. Are you even sure he’d leave his wife for you? I don’t know the entire situation, so feel free to correct me if I’ve missed a few details. Get my coaching program so I can look at the bigger picture and see what’s really going on. I’m sorry to hear about your late husband. I do have to point out that for your existing condition, I strongly advise that you seek treatment for that immediately and address it as soon as possible which may or may not play a role in the breakup now; since that is a different area altogether which is outside my reach. Okay? Take… Read more »
Sebastian
Sebastian
2 years 8 months ago
Hi Jessica, So here it is: My girlfriend dumped me about 3-4 months ago. I know exactly why – she said it was because she needed time alone and that because we had been together for so long (4 years) and are both still so young (20/21yr.) that she wants to learn to function on her own again. She also said that the ‘spark’ or excitement in our relationship had died, and I agree. However, I am madly in love with her. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and even after months apart I still think about her every single day. It’s horrible. I also know the REAL reason that we broke up – I became lazy. I neglected her needs and continually put my own wants before hers. I became unattractive to her (and everyone). Basically, I became too comfortable in our relationship and… Read more »
Jarred
Jarred
3 years 19 days ago
So my story is about my ex GF she left me a about a month ago and i know the reasons she told me we were a boring couple and that she wasnt attracted to me anymore. We had been dating for 3 months it was a good relationship where we began to fall in love with eachother. 2 days b4 the break up she was apologizing because she wasnt a good GF like not giving me enough attention and saying she was going to get better for me and i began to believe her because of the next day she gave me loads of attention like contacting me first etc. well the day after that she just randomly dumps me saying that we were boring and i was unattractive to her but she still wanted to be friends even though she dumped me well at midnight she called me… Read more »
deon colvin
deon colvin
3 years 3 months ago
idk what the f***. I mean I love her, but she doesn’t feel as though it’s true. Curses me out, calls me all type of thot whores, and say my dick is limp. She always run back to her bd and talk bad about me, because a prostitute tried to f*** me, but did suck me, I am very very sorry about what I’ve done to my ex and I just want to give her neck, but she didn’t wash up, so what should I do Jessica? I really do care about the views she has as well her mindset grasps my attention. She is gorgeous due to her intelligence, her beauty, and overall THICK as fuck and like a chicken I want to pluck. I can’t stop thinking about how I messed up a blessing and now I lost out and for that no one is worth my time… Read more »
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