• Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Youtube
  • Mail
  • Home
  • About LoveLearnings
  • Training Programs
  • Quizzes
  • Support
  • Contact
LoveLearnings
  • Dating
    • Dating
      • Dating Tips
      • Pickup & Seduction
      • Online Dating
      • Understanding Men
      • Understanding Women
      • View All…
    • Menu - Dating - Attract A Man
      • How To Attract A Man
    • Menu - Dating - Pickup article
      • Guys Only: How To Pick Up Girls
    • Menu - Dating - What Men Want article
      • Ladies Only: What Men Want In A Woman
  • Relationships
    • Relationships
      • Conflict Resolution
      • Cheating & Infidelity
      • Improve Your Relationship
      • Commitment Issues
      • Long Distance
      • View All…
    • Menu - Relationships - Healthy Relationships article
      • Simple Steps To Build The Perfect Relationship
    • Menu - Relationships - Fear of Commitment article
      • How To Overcome “Fear of Commitment” Issues
    • Menu - Relationships - Long Distance article
      • Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
  • Breakups
    • Breakups
      • Get Your Ex Back
      • Moving On
      • Dealing With An Ex
      • Breakup Survival
      • View All…
    • Menu - Breakups - Quiz
      • QUIZ: Will Your Ex Take You Back?
    • Menu - Breakups - Ex Back article
      • How To Quickly Move On After A Breakup
    • Menu - Breakups - Move On article
      • How To Get Your Ex Back (And Keep Them)
  • Marriage
    • Marriage
      • Marriage Problems
      • Improve Your Relationship
      • Cheating & Infidelity
      • Communication
      • View All…
    • Menu - Marriage - Quiz
      • QUIZ: Can Your Marriage Be Saved?
    • Menu - Marriage - Save Marriage article
      • How To Save A Broken Marriage
    • Menu - Marriage - Arguments article
      • Resolving Arguments With Your Spouse
  • Divorce
    • Divorce
      • Save Your Marriage
      • Stop Your Divorce
      • Dealing With Divorce
      • Marriage Counseling
      • View All…
    • Menu - Divorce - Save marriage article
      • How To Save Your Marriage
    • Menu - Divorce - Counseling article
      • Marriage Counselling: Does It Work?
    • Menu - Divorce - marriage Quiz
      • QUIZ: Can Your Marriage Be Saved?
  • Search
  • Menu Menu
  • Home
  • Dating
  • Relationships
  • Breakups
  • Marriage
  • Divorce
  • Quizzes
  • News & Research
  • Health & Safety
  • Just For Fun
  • About LoveLearnings
    • About
    • Training Programs
    • Customer Support
    • Community
    • Contact Us
    • Privacy Policy
You are here: Home1 / Health & Safety2 / 3 Dating Online Safety Tips for Women
online dating

3 Dating Online Safety Tips for Women

By Jessica Raymond

Therapist & Dating Coach

Find love onlineA recent study confirmed that a staggering 33 percent of couples who married in 2013 first met online.

That’s compared to 25 percent who met through work, less than 20 percent who met through friends, and fewer than 10 percent who met randomly (i.e., at a nightclub).

As we showed in this article, couples who meet online tend to marry much sooner than those who meet offline, and online dating does offer several key benefits to singles.

It’s no wonder that many people now turn to online dating. But, like everything else, there is also a downside to it … and for women, the costs of being careless in the world of internet dating can be severe.

Here are some tips on how to stay safe when dating men that you’ve met online.

Read the Disclaimer

Very few dating websites perform background investigations prior to accepting your membership. While this may be convenient and hassle-free, it also allows anyone — including sociopathic and abusive men — to join without having to be pre-screened.

Thankfully, there are plenty of things you can to do minimize the risks and ensure you don’t end up going on a date with someone who has malicious intentions.

1. Avoid Giving Out Personal Information

Don’t give out your date of birth, address, phone number, etc., before you have established a level of trust and rapport in person.  On the other hand, it is generally safe to reveal your age, sexual preference, likes/dislikes, zodiac sign, etc. … there’s plenty you can disclose without worrying about safety.

You can tell them the nature of your work, but not where you work. Similarly, it’s usually OK to give a general idea of where you live (i.e., “I’m from Queens, New York”) but not anything more specific than that.

If in doubt about whether or not it’s safe to disclose something, err on the side of caution and keep it private until you’re confident that it’s safe.

Man who likes how he looks

2. If It’s Too Good to Be True …

This is not to discourage you in any way, because you very well may meet “Mr Perfect” on a dating website … but beware of the charmer who knows just what to say and appears to be a certified “ladies man” who claims to be a 6’3″ rocket scientist with chiseled abs and a new BMW.

You can play detective (Google their name and check out their profiles on social media), and ask some questions to gauge their integrity and honesty. See if their answers are consistent, and if any red flags pop up during online chats or email/phone conversations.

Do a reverse search of his profile picture, checking to make sure it matches his social media profiles.  Look to see how many friends he has on social media accounts.  Don’t go overboard and hire a private investigator to follow him around, but use Google to do some simple and subtle sleuthing.

3. Let Your Friends In On It

You know you’re smart enough to meet in a public place and carry mace in your purse … but, nonetheless, it’s always best to let your friends or relatives know who you’re meeting along with details of when and where. On first dates, beware of last-minute location changes, especially if he wants to go somewhere more private.

It never hurts to text or have a friend call you in the middle of the date, either. It can give you a way out if things are going poorly, and allows you to check in with a friend to let him or her know you’re OK.

It Isn’t Difficult To Stay Safe

The tips in this article are easy to implement and will help you stay safe in the world of online dating … so, what’s your excuse?  Online dating may be the easiest and quickest way to meet the man of your dreams, so don’t avoid it because of the safety concerns — just use prudence and follow the simple advice in this article, and you’ll be fine!

Jessica Raymond

Jessica Raymond, BSc, is LoveLearnings senior editor. As a relationship coach, Jessica has helped hundreds of men and women achieve their relationship dreams. Whether it’s finding your one true love or simply charming someone on a date, Jessica's got your back! In her articles, she reveals little-known, psychological tips that will make even the coldest person chase you around like a little puppy.

Tags: attraction, dating tips, flirting, just for ladies, online dating, social media

Recent Posts

  • a chance meeting of exes6 Ways To Change Your Ex’s Mind About Breaking Up
  • woman-thinking-in-windowWhy You Can’t Forget Your Ex
  • sad-woman-on-benchIs It A Waste Of Time To Try To Get Your Ex Back?
  • hands-touching-sunsetLet Your Ex Go If You Want Them Back?
  • rewiring brain6 Ways No Contact Affects Your Ex’s Brain
  • ex-making-excusesIs Your Ex Making Excuses?
  • woman-confusedWhy Your Ex Can’t Make Up Their Mind
  • sad-couple-at-barStop Dating Your Type (Break The Cycle)

Find Us On YouTube

© 2020 LoveLearnings Media Inc
#300 - 1095 McKenzie Avenue
Victoria, BC, Canada   V8P 2L5

Free Quizzes | News & Research | Health & Safety | Just For Fun

About | Products | Community | Support | Contact | Terms | Privacy

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Youtube
  • Mail
Scroll to top